Feelings About Finances
Most of us think money is about numbers, goals, and returns – but what if it’s more about fear, shame, love, and purpose? In this conversation, Mary and James dive into the psychology of money: why we avoid talking about it, how our past shapes our financial behavior, and how wealth management is often more about values than value. From billionaires with hidden fears to new earners trying to get it right, this is a conversation about what money really means – and how we can have a healthier, more intentional relationship with it.
Money isn’t just about numbers — it’s deeply wired into our emotions, memories, and beliefs. How you feel about your finances shapes not only your spending and saving habits, but also your overall financial wellness. When we slow down to examine our emotional relationship with money, we open up powerful possibilities for healing, growth, and intentional decision-making.
Highlights:
- Why people would rather talk about death than their finances
- The emotional drivers behind wealth accumulation – fear, shame, and validation
- The critical role of a wealth advisor
- How to raise financially aware kids in a world of instant gratification
Resources:
The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel – Book
Acquired Podcast – Interview with Howard Schultz – Link
Simon Sinek TED Talk: Start With Why – Video



